Samstag, November 11, 2006
Just so not worth it sometimes...typing this at supersonic speed during wrk, so pls bear with bad grammar, limited vocab etc etc.
It's always good to let bygones be bygones. And though there's really no point talking abt the past, its immensely therapeutic for most, thus this entry. Now I don't really care abt the reactions this'll get, i'm really quite adjusted to people calling me an attention whore, slut, etc etc. And here's no such thing as a private blog either (pls stop the javascript password thing, its ridiculously easy to break). Anyway, here goes...
met this guy at the blog con last year. We happened to be seated at the same table, and he seemed to be an all-round good guy. We got along well, though there weren't any romantic notions, at least not on my part. We met up a couple of times after that, along with some of the bloggers, and i realised that he seemed to have taken a liking to me. It felt kinda weird, i wasn't ready to date anyone at that point of time, with all the drama going on in my life, so i kind of made that clear to him over msn one night. Basically, he kind of thought that me saying that was just to brush him off, and if i didn't have feelings for him, i shld just come straight out and say it. Things ended on an awkward note that night and we didn't speak to each other for a few weeks thereafter.
He approached me on msn again one night and asked why i, hmm how i shld i put it, backstabbed him. To me it was a very rude accusation, and i've always been the no-nonense kinda girl, so below's the summary of what i told him that night.
1) a few girls came up to me and talked abt how this guy asked them out individually. They knew that i met the guy before, and asked for my opinion.
2) i said exactly what i wld have said abt any other guy whom i didn't know well. - be careful, and be safe. going out alone with a guy whom you've nv met - cmon, what was i supposed to say? ooh go for it! he might turn out to be the one?
3) if the few girls (whoever they are, i don't remember and don't care) were idiotic enough to convey the message wrongly to him, that shldn't be my problem. I'm not ashamed of what i said. i''ve always been incredibly cautious of my dates and always will be.
Unfortunately, the guy in question didn't believe me, and insisted that there's no way why those girls wld lie to him etc etc. And it couldn't have been this other close girlfriend of his, cos she's supposedly a very good friend blah blah. And this really did set me off. i wasn't angry at him of course, he was probably just as angry and confused as i was, but at the girls who seeked advice from me and translated that into complete nonsense. It's just not worth it sometimes, i tell ya. Next time anybody asks, i'll say:
好啊，，去啊，那位叔叔会请你吃糖的哦！
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