Samstag, November 04, 2006
The games people play...I've never really considered myself as a late blossomer. I mean, i had boobs and my menses just about the same time as everybody else, and people often commented on this "mature" aura about me that i still don't get.
Still it took me ages to learn the things that people already seem to know. How you shld never show your true colours on the first date, how you shld always wait for the guy to call/text you after a date etc etc. Aren't these all...... games? I guess one might argue that this is all very subjective, some people are not game players etc etc, but believe me, everybody does it. I just didn't know how to.
A few years back i dated this guy who was seemingly perfect. Attraction of cos, cannot be explained, only felt and there were moments where like in a romance novel, my heart skipped a beat. Perhaps it was his unassuming nature, the fact that he bought me perfume that smelled like cotton candy ( i absolutely adore the smell of cotton candy), or how he greeted security guards with a loud "Howdy, mate!" with a big smile on his face.
As much as i was attracted to him, i was also confused by his weird gestures/actions (which i later realised that that was all game moves). You know, stuff like always look busy so that yr date won't think that you idle around all day waiting for her call, shower her with affection and then recoil just a lil to keep her wanting for more. We subsequently stopped dating and he left for a work stint in a foreign country.
When i first learnt all these i was bursting with indignation.
like huh?! free means free, not free means not free. why must act busy? *furrowed brow*
He's back, but i refuse to let myself be mindfucked again. Enough games. Gimme someone real pls.
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